Guess That Grave #2 Redux

ETA: And Michelle M. gets it correct!




I forgot I still had this picture sitting in my files. I thought I'd try it again as the original posting was three days before Christmas, perhaps not the best time for it.



3 Clues:

1. Frances was his wife.

2. An American flag is usually found by his grave. (Such as is in the picture)

3. He was a dandy.

N.B. The picture can be clicked on to embiggen.